2020 Update

No post from me in 2020. Don't want to re-hash that year but I do want to document/update from when I last posted in 12/2019. Sorry it's a long one, that's what happens when you only update once a year (that's going to change this year though!)

My last line from that post ...

"And here's to hoping that 2020 will be better than 2019."

Little did I know what would happen. Things were okay for us on a personal level. I had a new reason not to go shopping (I don't like to shop), I already had in stock, many of the things that got bought up, so didn't have to go out & about any more than I needed to. And, I actually enjoy staying home, so I did, for the most part.

Greg's business was condered essential, why, I don't know. He sells & services commercial lawn equipment. Don't ask me why the government thought that it would be essential to keep lawns manicured. He stayed open & thank goodness, no medical casualties for him, his employees or many of his customers. Unlike many others, his business actually thrived & on the financial front we were ok. He actually never opened on weekends during the summer like he would have in years past, so that gave us more free time than normal for that time of the year.

We came & went to the country house every other weekend & maintained distances. Not hard to do up there. A couple of weddings were cancelled & funerals were kept to graveside services. Speaking of funerals, one was an elderly aunt w/renal failure & the other a younger relative (Mom's side of the family) that had gotten in an accident & died from complications later. The medical authorities tried to classify both as Covid even though they weren't. I was told that the hospitals receive extra "pandemic" dollars if they were classified as such. Not right, in my opinion, but gotta keep those numbers up in order to keep the money coming in.

My sister, a hairdresser, did develop Covid but thank goodness it was a mild case & she recovered. She actually got it from a customer who also recovered & no other customers got it. She & her husband quarantined & she did what the Dr. told her & she's now fine, just a bit of lingering tiredness. My niece who is an RN in a hospital has been unaffected thus far. She actually changed jobs to work in the surgery ward so that keeps her away from the 'general' patients.

My brother-in-law drives a truck for a grocery chain & niece's husband works for a HVAC/Fire Security company & both their jobs were essential. So the family fared ok as well.

My FIL was still in LTC w/MIL staying w/him. She actually got clearance to stay & come & go like an Employee. I believe this was due to the fact that she did many of the things for FIL, like getting his teeth & hair brushed, face washed, etc. that freed up the nursing staff to spend that time with other patients.

However, FIL kicked her out of the facility in April, due to his worrying about Covid spreading in so many LTC facilities. She didn't like it but home she went, to the new house that she had never stayed in. Rough situation for her but we felt it was also the right decision. I went to the store & got her stocked up on essentials that could last her for a couple of months, so she wouldn't have to go out & about. 

In the meantime, we were already working on getting FIL out of the facility. That took the next couple of months, getting everything ready ... daily medical care, supplies, wheelchair, hoyer lift, etc.

He came home in June of 2020. Rough couple of months. But, by around Sept., they had found the right care giver (after going through 5 or 6 (FIL isn't the easiest person to get along with)). She is actually helping him more than any of the staff at the facility & he has improved a great deal. Even w/o the use of his left arm he can assist in getting in & out of bed w/o a lift & can stand/walk/shuffle with assistance. He still needs help with personal care & therapy but it's a whole lot better than it was June, July & August.

MIL continues to decline. Like FIL, her mind is all there but her movements, hearing, eyesight, etc. is rapidly declining. Much of it is due to the stress/demands that FIL puts on her. They've been married 65 years & he's pretty much always been like that. Nothing we can do to change that.

In the midst of everything, Greg was in the process of trying to complete the sell of his business. It got delayed several times over the summer & we were beginning to think that it never would happen. But .....

HE CLOSED THE SALE ON 12/31/20!!!!!!

He has to train the new owners for 30 days & after that he will be fully RETIRED on 2/13/21. It will most likely be quite the adjustment for us(me) but I think we are up to the challenge.

In preparation for full retirement (for us both) we purchased a 25' camper to do a little bit of travel for the next couple of years. We haven't been on a real vacation since 2011 & with Nelly (our pup), we figured it would be easier.

This is where I will document those travels so that's why I will hopefully be posting much more this year.

Whew, I'm done for now. Bring on 2021!