Left on the Eve to head back to the Country. Greg had already gone back on Monday. Stopped by my sister's to give the news of the house to our Mom. She was very happy & appreciative. Got to the Country House by 4:00p. Has a nice dinner of steaks & baked potatoes.
We have a dear friend that was disagnosed with Leukemia last June. After her second round of in-hopsital chemo & then a bone marrow transplant she was improving daily & then started going downhill. They made the tough decision to just let that horrible journey carry itself out & went home to be with family for the holidays. She died on New Year's Eve. Got the news on Thursday. She was a beautiful, charismatic, opinionated, classy, elegant woman. Forever known as the baby whisperer. She could make any baby quit crying by holding, cooing & just loving it. She leaves behind a very loving husband, 3 grown children & 2 beautiful grandchildren. The last one born on the 10th of December. Her memorial will be in a couple of weeks.
On Tuesday & Wednesday Greg had trenched the line for the W & E for our Garden Shed that we had installed last year. So on Thursday, after breakfast, we went once again to Lowes (I swear I need to buy stock) to buy a few plumbing fittings & more electrical stuff. We got the water running (2 faucets at this point) ... yeah! I decided to spend the afternoon filling in the trench. Manual labor always helps me find solace. I thought about our friend all afternoon.
We then cooked our very southern rendition of New Year's dinner. But, instead of pork roast we decided on pork ribs plus white rice, black eyed peas (w/green onions sprinked on top), collard greens & cornbread. It was soooo good, especially since we hadn't eaten any lunch.
I woke at 5:00a this morning & couldn't go back to sleep. Got up & noticed phone was dead & plugged it in, turned the coffee pot on, got my blanket & curled up on the couch watching MeTV. Just before I made my first cup my text alert went off. My sister ... our Mama had called her & was having trouble breathing/catching her breath. Sister went to her house & took her to the ER in their small town. They put her on oxygen & ran a few tests then decided to transfer her to one of the larger hospitals in the City. I took a shower, packed & drove back this morning going directly to the hospital. They ruled out Pneumonia, Flu, etc. & started her on medication to remove the fluid. By noon she was doing better. My sister went home to gather a few things while I stayed w/Mama. Sister came back & will stay a while tonight & I will head over there in the morning. All her vitals are good so we are very hopeful that medication can control whatever the problem is. No Dr. sighting as of 15 mins. ago but the nurses are ALL so very nice, helpful, funny & they share whatever information they have & answer all our questions as best they can.
Please let the year go uphill from here ....
14 comments:
I am sorry for the loss of your friend and I hope your Momma is feeling better soon. ((Hugs)) to you
Thank you Tonya.
DFW - the year WILL get better...you have so many plans and dreams! i am so very sorry for the loss of your friend...we will say special prayers for her family tonight. it is never easy to lose a loved one! also, we will say prayers for your Mom and hope that this is just one of those glitches that happen to our health from time to time...i am really glad that they ruled out pneumonia and flu! this is a stressful start to the new year but good things will come - we just have to believe it! tell your mom that 2 naked canadians are praying for her...she might get a real good kick out of that! bahahahahahah! we are sending prayers and love your way! to you and all of yours!
your friends,
jambaloney and kymber
Dallas - Oh, I'm so sorry to hear of your miserable Festive Season, and for your loss. You must be very relieved that your sister was there to assist your mama. They have made such incredible advances with medicine - hopefully what they prescribe for her gets her right in no time at all. Your all in my thoughts and prayers.
Take it easy and look after yourself now - y'hear?!
Thank you both.
Thank you Dani.
Happy New Year! I guess my head has been in the clouds cause I just learned today you have a blog. Oh well! I am here now....
I have those duh moments all too often too. Glad you stopped by. Happy New Year to your guys. You really should contact my firend that is nearby. You & your boys would love to visit them, they are really nice people.
Good grief! What a start to the year, but when I read the title of your post I was afraid you were going to say you'd had a car wreck heading to the country house! Whew!
Sorry to hear about your friend, and I'm glad your mom doesn't have the flu or pneumonia. Also glad you have a sister to help!
We had family visit for New Year's and I made Hoppin' John and Collards. Bob's cousin's husband brought some of his homemade spicy pear relish to go with the collards, and we decided we don't want collards anymore unless we have the pear relish! He said it's his grandfather's recipe, so we hope he will share so I can can a case next year!
Looking forward to seeing you in March! Happy New Year!
Thanks Debbie. I wish I could transport to March right now! Spicy pear relish sounds delicious.
DFW,
I've placed your Mom in my prayers, and will make sure to add her to our prayer group. Could you please e-mail me your Mom's first name for the prayer group (sandylivesay@gmail.com). I'm happy to hear your Mom is doing better, and hopefully soon she will have a diagnoses and be released from the hospital.
Oh dear, I'm very sorry about your friend's passing on on New Year's Eve. Sending you a big hug, prayers, and keeping your close to my heart.
2015 needs to raise up.....go uphill from here!!!
Thank you Sandy. My Mom is having a Heart Cath tomorrow so all prayers are welcome, I'll email you. Thanks again.
DFW,
I'm so sorry to read about all the trouble. Losing dear friends and dealing with family health issues are not fun. I will keep you and your Mom in my prayers. Keep us posted.
Thank you Izzy.
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