Monday, October 27, 2014

Relaxing Weekend

We left last Friday night to head to the country house. We weren’t able to get out of the city before 5:30p & it is about a 3 hour trip so it is dark by the time we arrived. We usually go ‘the back way’ because we have come to loathe Interstates, too many close calls in too short a time period.

Not that accidents can’t happen anywhere but I swear people are just idiots on the Expressways. I remember waaaay back when, you could trust the semi-truck drivers the best because they had the most experience & knew what they were doing.

Not so much anymore. The new drivers are let loose well before they are fully trained & even though they are responsible for many more tons that a regular vehicle, they TEXT. Yep, one almost ran us into a guardrail about a year ago. We were in the left (passing) lane on a three lane highway with a car in front of us that decided they were no longer in the mood to pass & had slowed down & another car behind us so we had nowhere to go. The semi, in the middle lane, just kept easing into our lane. I looked up & he was texting, not just reading a text but actually typing. We were just inches from the concrete guard divider, honking the horn, me flailing my arms. He finally realized & jerked back into his lane. A couple more close calls & we decided to find a different way to go. We did & now we avoid the interstate altogether. It is much more pleasant & a much less stressful drive.

We got the truck unloaded & made an adult beverage & sat on the back screened porch listening to the quiet. So very quiet. Off to bed early with not much to do the next day. I did a couple loads of laundry & hung them on the clothesline & clothes rack & piddled in my raised beds. Otherwise, just kind of took it easy . all . day . long.

My niece & a friend were coming to spend the night on Saturday but didn’t get in until around 6:00. Greg fried the last of our Mayport shrimp & we had cheese grits, broccoli slaw, sliced tomatoes & hush puppies.

We had started our first fire of the season earlier in the afternoon. After supper, we sat by the fire & looked at the stars. It is so remote that you can see millions & millions of them. We turned off the porch & flood lights so all you saw was sky. Absolutely beautiful!

The next day we drove over to a local Goat Farm. The people that own it are friends of friends of ours. When we told them where we were from & where our country place was, they asked “Are you MT’s cousin? We heard about you. Are you going to raise for personal use or with the intent to sell? Don’t go buying this or that without checking with us, it’s possible we already bought it to experiment with & had to upgrade & can sell it to you a whole lot cheaper than brand new. Etc.” Gotta love being in the country.

I didn’t get any pictures but they are just getting started, after many years of planning & getting inspections & finally approval, they are now licensed to sell & are just getting underway. They sell milk, about 8 different kinds of cheese, soap, honey, etc. Super nice people, I asked if I could help out a few days a week, once I’m retired, so I can gain some hands on education before I actually jump in the livestock wagon.

We got back to our place just as my niece & her friend were leaving. We packed up & went over to see my Dad & his wife since they were up as well. They had been on vacation in the mountains for a couple of weeks & instead of driving on to Amish Country, which my Dad loves, they decided to take the rest of their vacation at “The Farm” which is what my Dad & his brothers & sisters call the property.

Oh well, just wanted to document our weekend, we sure do live an exciting life huh?

7 comments:

Sandy Livesay said...

DFW,

Girl driving on expressways/highways your taking your life in your own hands........one has to always drive defensively. Stressed driving is no fun, and if you're dealing with hormonal changes while driving with these idiots not only will you be stressed......you'll be hot flashing on top of that!!!!
I'm glad to hear you both arrive safely to your country home. My husband and I try to take back roads every time we travel to avoid stress totally.

It's nice to unwind with an adult beverage at night looking at the stars and planets out in the country. You can see so many when there's no pollution, lights, or tree's in the way.

Can I borrow your neighbors :-)

DFW said...

Sandy, Yes you can borrow my neighbors. We have avoided stressful driving for the past 3-5 years. Always enjoy an adult beverage at the end of a long week.

Izzy said...

The Moose and I spend most of our day driving. We too try to avoid the expressways as much as possible, but even our side roads are awful here in Orlando. Besides the tolls just keep going up, and we were spending anywhere from $150 - $200.00 for the privilege of driving them. So we got that down to only $50. It may take us a bit longer, but it also happens to allow us to pass the local produce mart, or bread store, so it's a win win.

Glad you had a relaxing and fun weekend.

DFW said...

It's amazing the things you can discover along the back roads. Roadside vegetable stands, honey sold by the honor system, anyone need a decorated gourd, etc.

Debbie Burgess said...

You deserve a weekend like that every now and again, Deb! :-) We're spending our relaxing weekends working with our sheep, dogs, chickens, and Clarence, and we can't think of anything we'd rather be doing together right now. So glad to be living on our "country place" even though Bob hasn't retired yet. (He did say that he thinks we have all the livestock we can handle till after he retires. I, however, think that I can handle some more chickens.HA!)

Oh....and this is a thought...remember Rose from our CITR 2012 retreat? She's gearing up for a Nigerian Dwarf goat dairy....had her first kidding this past early spring and has built a milking parlor already.

DFW said...

I need to get in touch w/Rose because I think those are the goats I want. You can always handle a milk cow too since you are already at home and all .....

Leigh said...

Being able to "apprentice" at a goat dairy would be a fantastic opportunity! I have to admit that when I read "Are you going to raise for personal use or with the intent to sell?" I had to do a double take and wonder if they'd recently legalized anything in your state, LOL

The worst freeway I've ever been on been on was the Pennsylvania Turnpike. Bumper to bumper traffic at 70 MPH was more than my nerves could take!